Negotiation
Interests, limits, health notes, experience level, and expectations are discussed before play begins. Be honest, even if the detail feels awkward.
Rules
Rules are not here to intimidate you. They are here so privacy, safety, boundaries, and expectations are clear before we meet.
Calm, Clear Expectations
Rules are here to make the experience calmer, not colder. A respectful submissive should know the boundaries, screening requirements, privacy expectations, and safety language before arriving.
Read this page before sending a booking request. If the structure feels clear instead of discouraging, you are likely approaching the process correctly.
Core Rules
The essentials are direct by design. They protect privacy, safety, time, and the quality of the scene.
- Deposits reserve appointment time and are subtracted from the total tribute. Remaining tribute is paid in cash upon arrival.
- Arrive on time. If something changes, communicate before the appointment time.
- I lead the phone conversation and screening process so expectations stay clear.
- New clients must be at least 30 and book a two-hour minimum.
- Be discreet, sober, drug-free, courteous, and respectful.
- Rates are fixed and not negotiated.
- Come ready to follow direction. Topping from the bottom disrupts the scene.
- Leave your phone in your car.
- My sessions are BDSM-only. No sex or illegal services are offered or implied.
- Be honest about limits, health issues, medications, injuries, nerves, and BDSM experience.
- Every scene is negotiated. A safe word can slow or stop activity if needed.
Safety & Consent
Intensity is easier to trust when the structure is plain. This is what makes a serious session feel controlled instead of chaotic.
Safewords
A safeword can slow or stop activity if needed. It does not ruin the session; it keeps the session controlled and consensual.
Privacy
You will not be photographed, recorded, or publicly identified unless that has been specifically requested, discussed, and agreed upon.
FAQ
Most questions are answered here. If something important is not covered, ask clearly and respectfully.
Appointments
In-person appointments require at least 24 hours notice. I typically schedule between 11am and 8pm central time. New clients are required to book two hours minimum.
New Clients
I only accept sessions with those 30 years of age or older. New clients require a deposit before scheduling, and a credible reference may be required. If you do not have a reference, a phone consultation may be required before scheduling.
Extended Sessions
Sessions of 8 hours or longer require a non-refundable minimum deposit of 50 percent. With 7 days notice, the deposit may be applied toward a future session.
Cancellation Policy
Cancellations require 24-hour notice. No-call no-shows will not be rebooked.
Wardrobe Requests
If you want to wear something specific, tell me ahead of time and I can prepare it. I do not accept wardrobe requests for myself.
Privacy and Safety
Your privacy comes first. You will not be recorded or photographed unless specifically requested and agreed upon. Every session is negotiated, consensual, and paced with a safe word when needed.
Still Compatible?
If these rules feel clear rather than discouraging, you are probably ready to send a complete request with interests, limits, and questions.